@matigo between what I have to pay to support her and my own relatively modest living expenses, I’m forced to spend more than I’m bringing in on a monthly basis. I have had to eliminate my retirement deduction and I have somewhat of a buffer in savings, but it’s not sustainable long term, at least if I remain in the Pacific Northwest.
And yes, I do have near-term plans to move out of the area. Thankfully, I can complete the divorce process without being here.