I got the expected pushback from my lawyer when I told her I wasn't going to disclose where I live and with whom as part of the financial glasnost I was required to do. I told her they needed to argue relevance to a judge--good luck with that since there are no minor children and I wasn't requesting visitation anyway--and that I accept potentially having to pay her legal fees to do so.

Finally, those papers are now signed…and she'll hopefully have her own version of those papers shortly.