@matigo meanwhile, my not soon enough ex requested my address as part of the discovery process. I gave them a mailing address, but not my physical address. Even though there is no reason she needs to know, we’ll see if she decides to press the issue in court.
The mail that comes to the marital house in my name is either junk or stuff that’s relevant to the (marital) property. I didn’t even bother to set up forwarding as it’s easier to tell the few people that would send me mail what my new address is.
Having to route mail through the lawyer…ouch.