Things were seriously fucked the first few days and weeks of my divorce @matigo. At least you have a place to be, I didn’t even have that. Still don’t, really, but I’m making progress.
@variablepulserate it’s ground zero period. Without a bank account you can’t do much of anything.
// @matigo
@matigo wow, dude, that's fucked.
In my case, she closed the rest of the accounts but one of the shared accounts (the one my paycheck went into). I used that account to pay the filing fee for the divorce, but haven't used it since.
Hopefully she hasn't frozen your credit like mine did. Made it very difficult to get a bank account until I got it unfrozen. It was a race against time to get a new bank account open and call my employer to get my paycheck deposited into the new account.
Good luck, my friend. Sounds like you're in for a battle.
@variablepulserate hopefully she didn’t freeze his credit the way my soon-to-be ex did.
// @matigo @hazardwarning @joeo10
@matigo at least in my situation, I was the one who drained the bank account. She cancelled all the credit cards and did a lot of other things…
I feel for ya, though.
// @joeo10
In addition to my soon-to-be ex taking my money, the traffic cameras in Federal Way are, too. Fan…fucking…tastic.
@variablepulserate I dunno, I've gotten to the point where I rarely install apps on my phones and iPads anymore. In fact, I could probably lose a few and not even notice. :P
// @matigo
@variablepulserate the one thing I have is my freedom. Right now it means eating dinner in my car occasionally, but things are gonna get better real soon.
@variablepulserate right now, we're under temporary orders, and the money is called "undifferentiated family support" in addition to paying the kids auto insurance and the home mortgage. My son will be 22 in June and he graduates college in May. The youngest will be 18 in a month, but doesn't graduate high school until June. These orders will be revisited at the end of July.
I could still be on the hook for something related to my daughter (so called post-secondary education support), but I won't know that until it's negotiated…or decided by the courts.
@matigo I have a Mini 4 which is doing the same: getting more painful by the day to use. That and the battery ain’t what it used to be.