yeah, it’s amazing to have an actual partner.

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Tax Bill for 2022: Less than expected but still OMGWTF

H&R Block Fee: $269

Knowing my ex will have to endure more fun with the IRS: priceless

There is an element of that, sure. We discussed it pretty extensively.

variablepulserate.10centuries.org.

there’s so much I used to do primarily to avoid my family. That includes the miles I ran and all the traveling I used to do.

No more.

matigo.ca.

Lots of firsts today:

  • First work flight in three years
  • First time originating a trip out of BNA (Nashville)
  • First time landing in FLL (Fort Lauderdale)
  • First time in at least a couple of decades (if ever) that my partner and I both cried when she dropped me off at the airport

Thankfully, it won’t happen nearly as regularly as before.

I feel a lot better now than I did 24 years ago.

variablepulserate.10centuries.org.

24 years to be exact.

matigo.ca.

Two passports and a divorce later, I have a passport that doesn’t include my ex’s last name.

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not that I was technically liable for anything in the end due to the divorce order, but it’s nice not to have to deal with the courts to actually enforce that.

Meanwhile, I suspect there is some benefit to having a paid off home loan on my credit report.

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As of two days ago, I no longer have a mortgage on a house I no longer own. Considering my ex-wife’s income and work history (or lack thereof), I doubt she’d qualify for a loan without her mother co-signing. Or her mother just paying the loan off.

Either way, it’s one less liability I have to worry about.