@matigo My ex mother-in-law is loaded, has lent us significant sums of money in the past, and hates me. It's not a difficult ask in this case.
// @variablepulserate
I can't count the number of times I've seen legal documents from opposing counsel in my divorce where I've seen obvious typos in details that don't change, like my address. The only conclusion I can come to is: they're doing it on purpose to run up the legal bills.
If these draft QDROs are any indication, my ex has spent about $45,000 in legal fees.
@whoisashygirl I was over her well before I started the divorce process. Most of the pain I was dealing with involved the legal system and the fact my children are captured assets.
Take your time in processing the pain.
There are plenty of ways you can hurt a man
And bring him to the ground
You can beat him, you can cheat him
You can treat him bad and leave him when he's down, yeah
But I'm ready, yes, I'm ready for you
I'm standing on my own two feet
Out of the doorway the bullets rip
Repeating the sound of the beat
#nowplaying
@whoisashygirl makes avoiding him a bit easier if that’s what you ultimately decide.
Sometimes, it’s the right person but the wrong time. Give it time and space. Make sure you’re taking care of yourself.
@whoisashygirl Is this someone you have to see on a regular basis (i.e. because you work and/or frequent the same place)?