@matigo when you’re playing with house money like my ex is, you don’t really know…or care…what it costs.
After nearly 18 months, I'm convinced my ex's legal representation makes dumb mistakes on legal documents on purpose to drive up their legal fees.
A year ago, I had arrived at my new home in Tennessee. It was after the most epic roadtrip of my life, starting in Washington State, eventually got all the way to Charleston, South Carolina where I got to give Adam Curry (the Podfather) a hug at a meetup.
@variablepulserate I don't deserve their hatred. Given I broke free of their narcissism, I understand it.
// @matigo
@matigo My ex mother-in-law is loaded, has lent us significant sums of money in the past, and hates me. It's not a difficult ask in this case.
// @variablepulserate
I can't count the number of times I've seen legal documents from opposing counsel in my divorce where I've seen obvious typos in details that don't change, like my address. The only conclusion I can come to is: they're doing it on purpose to run up the legal bills.
If these draft QDROs are any indication, my ex has spent about $45,000 in legal fees.
@whoisashygirl I was over her well before I started the divorce process. Most of the pain I was dealing with involved the legal system and the fact my children are captured assets.
Take your time in processing the pain.