I can't count the number of times I've seen legal documents from opposing counsel in my divorce where I've seen obvious typos in details that don't change, like my address. The only conclusion I can come to is: they're doing it on purpose to run up the legal bills.

If these draft QDROs are any indication, my ex has spent about $45,000 in legal fees.

I was over her well before I started the divorce process. Most of the pain I was dealing with involved the legal system and the fact my children are captured assets.

Take your time in processing the pain.

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sometimes, that's all you can do.

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trust me, I can't think of one without the other. 😉

matigo.ca.

Brining a chicken to smoke tomorrow.

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There are plenty of ways you can hurt a man
And bring him to the ground
You can beat him, you can cheat him
You can treat him bad and leave him when he's down, yeah

But I'm ready, yes, I'm ready for you
I'm standing on my own two feet
Out of the doorway the bullets rip
Repeating the sound of the beat
#nowplaying

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makes avoiding him a bit easier if that’s what you ultimately decide.

Sometimes, it’s the right person but the wrong time. Give it time and space. Make sure you’re taking care of yourself.

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Is this someone you have to see on a regular basis (i.e. because you work and/or frequent the same place)?

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I'll go with the first adult record I ever put on the turntable: Dark Side of the Moon. By far, it's the album I've purchased the most times in various forms…three times in the last year, even.

The 50th Anniversary edition (which has a 1974 concert on it) has a really cool "work in progress" cover.

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From Alan Parsons Project, I am partial to I Robot and Ammonia Avenue.

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