@matigo funny thing: I stopped wearing my wedding band well before the separation. Mostly because I lost so much weight, the thing wouldn’t fit. Then again, the marriage stopped fitting along time ago.
@matigo I’m definitely not running as much as I was before due to the fact the options for doing so safely are a bit more limited. That said, I’m still doing it.
@matigo not going to lie, I’ve gained a few pounds since this started. It’s as much to do with what I can buy due to my living situation as much as it is…stress.
@matigo she’s not going to make this easy. Then again, when you spend 25 years not fighting, everything is a fight.
@matigo my living situation is temporary at the moment. Hopefully, in the next few weeks, that’ll be sorted. Then, it’ll be a matter of dealing with the legal machinations, which might take a while.
Things were seriously fucked the first few days and weeks of my divorce @matigo. At least you have a place to be, I didn’t even have that. Still don’t, really, but I’m making progress.
@variablepulserate it’s ground zero period. Without a bank account you can’t do much of anything.
// @matigo
@matigo wow, dude, that's fucked.
In my case, she closed the rest of the accounts but one of the shared accounts (the one my paycheck went into). I used that account to pay the filing fee for the divorce, but haven't used it since.
Hopefully she hasn't frozen your credit like mine did. Made it very difficult to get a bank account until I got it unfrozen. It was a race against time to get a new bank account open and call my employer to get my paycheck deposited into the new account.
Good luck, my friend. Sounds like you're in for a battle.
@variablepulserate hopefully she didn’t freeze his credit the way my soon-to-be ex did.
// @matigo @hazardwarning @joeo10
@matigo at least in my situation, I was the one who drained the bank account. She cancelled all the credit cards and did a lot of other things…
I feel for ya, though.
// @joeo10