@matigo trust me: I ain’t changing my mind after 25 years of being married to…the respondent.
The other reason they have the 90 day period is to allow the parties to come to an agreement before the courts get involved.
@matigo the main thing at this point is getting the order modified where I have to give her 75%+ of my take-home pay. That hearing happens in a couple weeks and I’m working with my lawyer on the filings for that. Beyond that, I assume we’ll negotiate division of assets. Can’t finalize the divorce until at least April due to the mandatory 90 day “cooling off” period in Washington State law.
@matigo when your only communication happens through lawyers and you’re in the middle of legal paperwork for your divorce…yeah, that’s how you have to refer to her.
@variablepulserate considering we’re communicating only through lawyers and we’re in the midsts of legal proceedings…I think I’d rather be doing Amazon warehouse work. :P
@matigo I don’t give too many thoughts about her per-se, but I do have to deal with the legal system.
@variablepulserate sadly, I have to spend far more time than that on the legal bits and pieces.
@matigo I just had to do my self-input for my review. It was a bit overdue, but then again, a couple weeks ago, I was basically in survival mode thanks to my divorce.
@variablepulserate the situation could be a lot worse. I could be living out of my car, as I saw plenty of people doing in Tacoma.
Nothing like having to deal with your divorce during the busiest time of the year work wise.