One of the most important things I've learned in life is not to give help to people who clearly don't want it. Even if you can clearly see the icebergs they're heading for and have pointed them out numerous times, people have to be accountable for their own actions. You can't save someone from themselves.
As the great Geddy Lee sang many, many times:
"If you choose not to decide you still have made a choice."
@matigo I said that wrong. Nashville is the kind of place people go to for “reasons.” Where I live, not so much, unless you like Golf.
@matigo well done, my friend.
I took a different journey insofar as I jumped off the cliff and had to face almost all the fears that built up for 25 years all at once. That and outside of my job, car, and a handful of baubles, I don’t have too much from my past life.
It also helps that I moved to a new part of the world for me. It’s also the kind of place you wouldn’t casually go to (e.g Nashville), which means the odds of encountering people I don’t want to deal with…are basically nil. Also, it’s all new to me, meaning very little to trigger bad memories.
@variablepulserate I have music 24/7 at https://lotuseffect.stream (at least when we’re not on live).
@matigo they also don’t need to be replaced nearly as often because they are…simple
// @variablepulserate
Showing support for my friends and colleagues who have done so much for me…and the world. ❤ 🇮🇱
Found a letter from dad [phoneboy.me] in my personal things. Confirmed a few recent thoughts I've had on various fronts..