@matigo the only downside of changing lawyers (aside from the cost, of course) is that the scheduled trial date (if it gets there) will have to be pushed due to a previous trial. Of course, if the other side doesn't provide answers before the scheduled mediation date, that could get pushed…which might push the trial date further.
I suspect she'll want to settle this because the one thing a narcissist hates most is being exposed. And…she's provided more than enough for me to do exactly that.