@matigo there’s so much I used to do primarily to avoid my family. That includes the miles I ran and all the traveling I used to do.
No more.
Lots of firsts today:
- First work flight in three years
- First time originating a trip out of BNA (Nashville)
- First time landing in FLL (Fort Lauderdale)
- First time in at least a couple of decades (if ever) that my partner and I both cried when she dropped me off at the airport
Thankfully, it won’t happen nearly as regularly as before.
Two passports and a divorce later, I have a passport that doesn’t include my ex’s last name.
@matigo not that I was technically liable for anything in the end due to the divorce order, but it’s nice not to have to deal with the courts to actually enforce that.
Meanwhile, I suspect there is some benefit to having a paid off home loan on my credit report.
As of two days ago, I no longer have a mortgage on a house I no longer own. Considering my ex-wife’s income and work history (or lack thereof), I doubt she’d qualify for a loan without her mother co-signing. Or her mother just paying the loan off.
Either way, it’s one less liability I have to worry about.
@matigo from what I can tell from the transcript, the computer disagrees with the amount of a credit that was claimed, resulting in me owing more money. Will have to wait and see what the official notice from the IRS says.
I've got my legal name changed most places it matters now, including with my employer. My passport, which it looks like I might need in May, will take several weeks since I need a new one, given the picture looks nothing like me.