Updated a few of my family members where I have moved to. No, that does not include my not-soon-enough ex or the kids…
@matigo in your case, your son is young enough that he is entirely dependent on Reiko to communicate with you. Unless she's incapacitated, my daughter is 18 and more than capable to communicate with me directly…if she chooses to. :P
// @sumudu
Sometimes, freedom looks like this: a new drivers license in a new state. Issued on the not-soon-enough ex’s birthday, no less.
@sumudu my daughter hasn’t spoken to me since I filed for divorce. Given my not-soon-enough ex is only speaking to me through her lawyer at this point, I don’t expect she’ll tell me anything.
@matigo trust me, I know the feeling, I've been spending like a drunken sailor the last month on hotels/Airbnb for the move across the country, gas to drive across the country, and basic necessities for the new condo.
On the plus side, my freezer is now fully stocked with meat, the grocery bills for the needed fresh items should be pretty minimal, and I shouldn't need cleaning supplies for a long while.
Apparently my daughter was involved in an auto accident. The way I found out? I saw a notification in the insurance app that a claim was submitted for her car. No communication from the not-soon-enough ex about it.
I hope my daughter is ok.
@matigo the only thing that might require my presence is in December, assuming we don’t settle before then. Given how things are going currently, I’m not holding out much hope.
@matigo it’s all in writing in the form of a “formal” letter from her lawyer to mine. She clearly thinks she’ll scare me into submission. I’m standing my ground on these matters, and I have no doubt it will end up back in court.