@matigo I dunno how long a typical divorce takes in Japan. Mine, where the separation started in early January, may not go to trial until the beginning of December…assuming we don’t settle beforehand.
// @sumudu
@matigo The only advice I can give here is: when the right person comes along, you’ll both know it.
@jextxadore this sounds a bit like what I went through in the early phases of my divorce. There was no “stay” option in my case, and the decisions about my things involved what would fit in my Prius. Definitely no going back, either.
Episode 31 of The Lotus Effect is now available and is titled Time, Trolling, and Treasure [lotuseffect.show]. Pheonix and I talk about the truth and the bullshit of Keto.
@matigo I’ve been hemorrhaging money since I separated from my not soon enough ex. Mostly because I’ve had to give most of my paycheck towards supporting her. 😬
Now that I have a more stable living situation in a cheaper part of the world, I’m hoping my living costs will stabilize to something that’s sustainable.
// @sumudu
@matigo the lawyer has made the point that fair and equitable does not mean equal. In my experience, it's neither fair or equitable, either. :P
Discovered the not-soon-enough ex had removed me from the auto insurance. Which is funny because the court orders say we weren’t allowed to make changes to the insurance with respect to each other…
Of course, I have my own policy now anyway. Even so, it’s technically a violation of the court order. Not that I expect my lawyer will do anything about it. Or the courts. 🙄