@matigo don’t put it past Reiko to turn your child against you. My soon-to-be ex has been basically doing that for years with my kids.
// @sumudu @hazardwarning
@matigo probably better to have a higher limit, at least in terms of your credit score. That assumes you pay it off every month, though. 😬
@matigo For all the anxiety I have around the financial realities imposed by the courts in my divorce, it's an order of magnitude less stress than I was enduring living with her.
@matigo that and the kids. Whatever positive feelings we had for each other died a LONG time ago.
// @sumudu
@sumudu this is all about money at this point. Which, if I get right down to it, was probably the only reason she stayed married to me for as long as I did.
I find it interesting what the soon-to-be ex communicates with me directly versus what she chooses to communicate through her lawyer. And I suspect her lawyer is either not relaying the information or is advising the respondent not to…respond.
Either way, I suspect our next court hearing will be interesting. And will require me to give her even more money I don't have.
@variablepulserate the wife (who isn’t a citizen) is most definitely a refugee. Since they are married, he’s being treated similarly.
It’s an odd situation no question.
In the three months I’ve stayed at this AirBnB, there have been several other guests as the hosts rent two of their rooms out.
The current guest is a guy from Afghanistan who is separated from his wife. Was apparently some sort of translator for the US military (and is a US citizen), but is currently jobless. Sounds like him and his estranged wife are considered refugees.