I got the expected pushback from my lawyer when I told her I wasn't going to disclose where I live and with whom as part of the financial glasnost I was required to do. I told her they needed to argue relevance to a judge--good luck with that since there are no minor children and I wasn't requesting visitation anyway--and that I accept potentially having to pay her legal fees to do so.
Finally, those papers are now signed…and she'll hopefully have her own version of those papers shortly.
@matigo yeah, I know the feeling. I think we can both hope that our kids will break free of their mother’s influence and see things as they are.
@matigo sure but it’s also generally mixed with sugar, which I’m trying to avoid. That said, a square of 90% cacao every so often won’t hurt. 😬
Episode 30 of The Lotus Effect is now available and is entitled It Makes You Go Crap [lotuseffect.show]. Pheonix and I talk about the health benefits of coffee. Enjoy!
@variablepulserate I’m sure that’s the reason for asking. Like I said, they’re not getting it without a fight.
@matigo if you got nothing holding you in Japan, I say GTFO unless you really like living there.
// @sumudu
@variablepulserate she thinks I’m squirreling money away somewhere. Given she ran the books for most of our marriage. I’m thinking: projecting much?
@matigo in terms of finances, it’s probably in my best interest to share the details as the current family law orders are financially unsustainable.